Blame is an excuse to justify not taking accountability. It only serves to disempower those who believe it. And worse, it doesn’t represent reality. You’ll be able to control an outcome more often than not.
You can desire both, but without a distinction you risk everything. Find comfort in securing basic needs and ignoring most wants. Simplifying your lifestyle will increase your self-sufficiency and well-being.
Jumping to conclusions without relevant observation increases the liability of your biases. Those premature judgments build upon each other over time. Make your observations, test them, and verify via peer review.
Those who stick together grow together. A peer-to-peer mentoring network will accelerate your personal growth. Find those you can consult with regularly, openly, and with intent to share challenges.
Be systematic in forming new hypotheses and running tests. Success to some extent requires discovering lesser known truths and leveraging them. And common knowledge isn’t always correct. We need people questioning assumptions.
Facing the unfamiliar means pushing the boundaries of what’s known. You are inherently pushed out of your comfort zone. Personal growth is guaranteed. You’ll face new realities and discover new passions.
This form of documentation has pragmatic short-term value and if maintained long-term value. Authors are forced to refine their thinking. And for everyone else they serve as quick references when learning new processes.